Hello Old Friend!

Wow it's been about six months since I've updated on this little diddy. (in Ms. Ceily voice) I just want to say I love you...and Im...not...dead. LOL. So there's no possible way to update all that has been going on with me in one post but I'll do a dry attempt at an abbreviated update.*sigh* (we all know how hard it is for me to abbreviate ANYTHING). Anywho, in most recent news I've started a sister blog (thirty minutes ago) called the Chatterbox Files. And boy, am I excited about it. I dont know how many posts I want to do today simply because the point of an all inclusive pop culture, lets talk about it, mosh posh blog is to take interesting things and post them day by day. Not dump a pound of random on people in one sitting. So I have to hold my horses. At least till tomorrow. And THEN the fun begins. I was skeptical of keeping this blog in view since, these precious gems, really are my personal thoughts...and I want to be pretty ambigious about my own comings and goings...as I intend to make this sister blog GREAT!!! Im excited, we shall do big things.
Again, I said TRY to be abbreviated. In this particular situation, birdwalking is not only allowed but encouraged. Im not gonna curb my thought process for the sake of word count. So in not so recent news, me and my beloved friend of three years parted ways. (i know, i know lets the sobbing begin). It was high time though...that monstrousity of a relationship began to get so toxic even I couldnt detox from it. It had to die. So die it did. In May 2009 my friendship died. It had a brief resurection on my birthday but nonetheless...its no longer with us.
And my parents and I fought, and they told me I had to move, and I moved, and I got the car, and I started a new life, and I got a new job..and...and...AND.
My life is just different. Completely.
I look at my life now and wonder what the hell I was doing beforehand. All that crying and sniveling and rolling around in my own misery, it was just pitiful. But I respect that I had to be THERE, to get HERE and here is so very nice. Im surrounded by family who love me, I have independence and so much waiting on me I can't even wait to start! So much changed so quickly, it seems as if it happened overnight. But the morning after has been so worth it.
And now Im free to name names and do whatever it is I please because I got it like that and these are my words and this is my blog. You dont like it (points) there's the door. There's always a way to navigate passed anything you DONT want to see so...in that vien Im'a close this post by saying: I love my life, I love those who love me...and Im happy as heck to be here!!! See ya soon.
Not so much just one black girl anymore...but a WOMAN surrounded by an army of friends, fam and angels.
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